This time last month, I was still in Baghdad; a few days away from leaving for home. This time last year, I was in Kuwait; a few days away from leaving for a combat zone. We left Baghdad early on the 5th, to fly to Kuwait. We spent forty-eight hours in Kuwait before starting our journey to CONUS (Continental United States). On our way we stopped (out of all places) at Keflavik, in Iceland. From the plane, I saw a barren landscape that seemed both scorched and frozen at the same time. It was as if someone had burnt the whole countryside and then frozen it. The ground was the colour of rust, with patches of ice. It seemed like an alien landscape, but was weirdly beautiful at the same time. We stayed there for about an hour or two before heading to the United States. On the way back, the sun was just rising over the Nordic landscape. Rays of sunlight pierced through the clouds, lighting up the coastline. I can't do justice to the scene with mere words, so I have a picture of it later on in my post.
Our first stop in the United States was at New Hampshire. It was our first step back on American Soil. There was a welcome party there for us, from an organization formed by War Veterans and Citizens. I was overwhelmed by the support we received from these people. They had woken up early in the morning to receive us. I felt an instant bond with the old warriors there; an instant recognition - something that only exists between servicemembers. I won't even try to compare my experience to what those heroes have been through. These were veterans from World War II, The Korean War, The Vietnam War, and Desert Storm. You have to understand that some of these veterans, especially the ones from Vietnam, had no one to welcome them when they came back home from war. In fact, they were spit on, hated, and ridiculed. It angers me when I think of the indiginities they suffered, especially from a public that has no idea of the horrors of the war. Quite often they decide that the dishonourable actions of a few are good enough to condemn a majority. This is why I am happy to see that the majority of the American public still support their troops even if they don't agree with the war. A lot of these veterans feel sad that they can't join us at war. In fact, as a World War II veteran told us, "I wish I was there fighting alongside you gentlemen, but I don't think they take 80-year old men in the Army anymore...". Before we took our leave, the veterans got into formation and saluted us. Our Company XO (Executive Officer) called us to attention and we saluted them right back. The CO of the Veterans' Formation told us "You have no idea, how much it means to us, for you to salute us." That counted as one of the most moving experiences in my life. I find it hard to describe the emotions experienced by a servicemember to civilians - it is not something that you can put into words. It is something you have to experience. It some something you develop when you spend time with friends who you know have your back. It is something you develop when you spend time with friends in an environment where any of you can die at any time. It is something you develop when you pray everyday that no one in your company gets hurt when they go outside to do their missions. It's when you are party of a family. A brotherhood.
After leaving New Hampshire, we stopped at Ft. Lewis. I remember watching troops coming back from Iraq, when I was there over a year ago. I knew I'd be in their position one day, and I sure was. We stayed there for about five days to go through paperwork and briefings. Finally, early on the morning of the 12th, we headed back to Phoenix, Arizona. On August 29th, 2005, I remember thinking "One day, I'll be on a plane flying in the opposite direction". And sure enough, there I was. My level of excitement mounted as I realized that in a very short time, I would be seeing my friends and family... and that they would be elated to see me.
All things come to an end. Sometimes it feels like it takes a long time, but eventually...
As always, here are some pictures. I also have pictures from Thanksgiving '06. I missed last year's Thanksgiving, but this year's more than made up for it. Everyone was there, including my mom and dad, my sister-in-law, and my sister's fiance. Oh, and I also have pictures of my brother's and sister-in-law's wedding reception.
Patten, Valles, Terry, and I at BIAP.
UH-60 Blackhawk
Chinook
Inside the C-130
Everyone inside the C-130
Patten and I in Camp Virginia
Soto, Valles, and I in Camp Virginia
Nordic Sunrise
Veterans' Welcome at New Hampshire
This doggy was there to welcome us at New Hampshire
He had a little buddy to welcome us too
Roughnecks at New Hampshire
My buddies and I went to a Mexican Restaurant near Ft. Lewis. When we walked in, I saw these polaroids on the wall of people with Sombreros on. I found out that if it was your birthday, you got your picture taken with a sombrero. So I told them it was my birthday and my buddies played along.
Welcome Home, Roughnecks!
Michael and I at Sky Harbour
Michael, Naima, and I
Patten and I at the Moastery
Valles and I at the Monastery
Valles, Patten, and I at The Monastery
Viridiana, Berenice, and I at The Monastery
Dipu Cheta and Keerthi
Dipu Cheta, Simi Chechi, Keerthi, and Mannu
Keerthi
Keerthi and Simi Chechi
Keerthi, Simi Chechi, and Amma
Maya, Priya, Keerthi, Simi Chechi, and I
Maya, Priya, Dipu Cheta, Keerthi, Simi Chechi, and I
Prem and Simi Chechi
Priya, Simi Chechi, and I
Priya, Maya, and Simi Chechi
Thanksgiving Dinner
Thanksgiving Dinner
Thanksgiving Dinner
Keerthi, Dipu Cheta, Simi Chechi, and I
My sister and her fiance
Mannu, Keerthi, Amma, Acha, and I
Priya and I
My sister and I
Keerthi, Mannu, and I
Maya and I
Priya, Maya, and I
Shipra, Maya, Simi Chechi, Keerthi, and Priya
Aniyammama, Hemammayee, Dipu Cheta, Simi Chechi, and Prem
Simi Chechi and I
WELCOME HOME VIVIN
I would love for you to do body shots off me, soldier!
Michael will watch. Call me.
Gravey,
You are gonna get me in so much trouble!
Did you bring me back any Iraqi panties to wear on my head? Oh and did you jiggle Kathleen’s riser card yet? Be sure to take pictures because I’m oh so lonely.
Greg YOU BASTARD!
I don’t think Greg had anything to do with Phil’s post. It must have been someone else…
Fabulous to see u back with ur loved ones. Be happy and stay crazy.
love
deeps
Phil, I gave you some panties from Kathleen after she "jiggled my riser card." Your audio recording of it was amazing. Thanks for doing that. Is this not good enough? You have enough for a different style every day of the week. Kathleen is dreamy. Go for it Vivin.
i have been, following, with great interest,the heated discussions on the Article in Wikipaedia on "Ezhava".
I am on your side. Hundred percent.
I would also like to add that Caste system wasn’t just an invention of the Mambuthiri Brahmins.It was there all along. When the nambithiris arrived here, they found the nairs in charge, in all probability.The alliance that ensued was the basis on which the radical developments that followed- assuming the early Nambuthiris were fair_skinned descendants of the original Aryan hordes , and not certainly like EMS!.
As history would show, the alliance proved disastrous for the Nairs, who were soon reduced to fighting and working for the Nambuthiris.(Perhaps it was the ultimate victory of the pen over the sword!).
Nevertheless, the many royal houses that came up in the later centuries could n’t have been anything other than the genetic mutations of the original Nair Chieftains, as they gathered in the Sanskritising Aryan "genes".
Meanwhile, the Ezhavas and other greats, as someone had stated in the Wiki Article, were soon reduced to "mere voyeurs, who had little to gain from the social and sexual mores of the times!"
Let’s maintain a dialogue, if time permits.
Regards,
R Nair
Hey Vivin,
Hows it going, noticed you over in wiki, wanted to drop you a line. Wow a Mallu over in Iraq. Well brother as a fellow mallu american I have to say thank you for serving our country. Are there alot of mallus in the armed forces in Iraq? Well seeing your work in wiki I wanted to send you a pubmed article that I found very interesting. It might enhance any of your articles about malayalis or Kerala. I trying to think of its proper use myself so I thought I might put it out to other wiki Keralites and see what they can do with it. Write me back if you’re interested and thanks for your service to our country and to wikipedia.
Jim
interesting blog. surfed in from where you commented on mine. Also, I did actually end up finding her name.
I’d try and make some sort of intelligent comment about the content of your blog, but the whole experience is so out of my realm of imagination that I won’t embarass myself by trying. It was nice meeting you.
Hello, my name is Shaun Benson. I work on the television series "My War Diary" that is airing on both the Discovery and Military channels. I came across your profile and video "Broomstick Jousting or What Soldiers Do When They Are Bored" and am interested in possibly using your footage in our program. The idea of the show is to acquire footage from soldiers who have been to Iraq/Afghanistan, and have them tell their stories in their own words, a sort of diary- hence the name of the show. If you think this is something you may be interested in, please email me at [email protected] for more information.
If you’re interested in uploading footage, go to our upload page here:
http://www.lmnotv.com/mywar/
Thank you and I hope to hear from you soon.
Shaun
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818.382.4388
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I know Phil didn’t post any of that! It was me, and I love you!